The pursuit of true happiness.

According to Wallace Wattle in his wonderful book The Science of Getting Rich, he describes the subject of research this way. Studying poverty can only create more of the same, focusing our attention on anything will cause the subject to evolve.
The twentieth century has seen more of its share of confronting study and research leading to the exact opposite of the intention. We have discovered more diseases in all field of medicine than ever before. Psychological research was primarily focused on mental illness. The fact is that for every one hundred articles publish on mental illness only one published on mental health. We now have a much better understanding of depression, schizophrenia, and other “negative elements” of human behavior; unfortunately, we made much less progress toward scientifically understanding the elements of health and optimal living.
And thanks to the very few that focused their effort toward discovering the other side by researching happiness and other such positive human behaviors. People like Martin Seligman who, as the President of the American Psychological Association and his colleagues created a new branch of research labeling it “Positive Psychology.”
It’s pretty exciting to look at the scientific research that is being conducted on subjects such as the value of self-awareness, goal directed behavior, altruism, gratitude and other aspects of optimal living.
Following on the discovery made during that time it was discovered that improvement in the basic core virtues described as
Wisdom and knowledge Courage Love and humanity Justice Temperance Spirituality and transcendence, the wholeness of one’s life reach a level of happiness not linked to any outside interference such as money, material acquisition, and relationship but that instead all of the above exist only as a result of inner happiness.
So by first focusing on your strength, and not your weakness, is the core issue of the creation of happiness. Here again we see that the real secret is our inner existing strengths our inborn gifts, and by further developing those we will discover the core of our search for happiness and no other ways.
Here is a site you might take advantage of www.AuthenticHappiness.com You will find tests and have fun getting to know yourself better with scientifically valid tests on everything from gratitude and meaning to optimism and “grit.”
But before you go there and start playing with the different test offered I suggest for you to write down what you think are your five greatest strengths. Yes please do it now and come back to the post.
So what did you find? Exiting? Yes?
There are three kinds of orientation, a job, a career and a calling. You can be a doctor that practices just to create a great income, that’s a career or you can be a garbage collector and see your occupation as providing a cleaner safer environment, that’s a calling. You can punch the clock and collect a paycheck, that’s a job or you can have a career to enjoy the benefits of advancement and mastery of a given domain it’s just a career. Here is the beauty any job or career can become a calling (vocation) and any calling can become a job. Your choice.
So what are your strength go ahead make that list again, very important to keep your strength in front of you at all time, how can you apply your strength in everyday life, at home at work at play, create your calling by writing down a description of your strengths, here is my example. I use my curiosity to do the research needed for the conduct of workshops and seminars offering the best available information to the participants helping them find their way in life.
So go ahead and write a short description of all your 5 strengths. Keep them with you and live your calling.

From the standpoint of daily life, however, there is one thing we do know: that we are here for the sake of each other – above all for those upon whose smile and well-being our own happiness depends, and also for the countless unknown souls with whose fate we are connected by a bond of sympathy. Many times a day I realize how much my own outer and inner life is built upon the labors of my fellow men, both living and dead, and how earnestly I must exert myself in order to give in return as much as I have received.” ~ Albert Einstein
For the past few years I am using and teaching a technique called The One Command. I encourage you to investigate. It is bringing me closer and closer to my life goals and already I have witnessed great success because    of  it Visit my link. http://tocleaders.com/bernardt/
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Impossible

That word “impossible” man’s ever present weakness’, going along with another phrase, “I don’t believe” are positively the two most limiting belief sentences in existence. And we are using them daily and after that it’s all said and done, we have justified everything that has happened, is happening and will happen in the future, we have no doubt in the matter, the decision is made and no further action is needed. And then we wonder “why is this happening” and it’s still “impossible”, the wonder of the power of the thought we create within ourselves and all of that we create in our life that we label as undeserved, not fair, and many other labels of choice.
Insistently, consistently, positively confirming every situation in our life we are determined to go unwavering to our demise proclaiming from the core of our being “it’s impossible” or “I don’t believe” and we are correct.
What does it take to make anything possible and believable? What? Commitment? Dedication? A purpose? Listen to what Edison said “I had learned, from years of experience with men, that when a man really desires a thing so deeply that he is willing to stake his entire future on a single turn of the wheel in order to get it, he is sure to win.” Yes read this again and again write it up and post it on the wall big. Or maybe you decide not to believe or that it’s impossible. Well it’s your decision and you must live with it.
Yes I know I don’t really like it either when the truth is in my face, it doesn’t change the fact that the truth is the truth no matter what we decide to make of it. Time to time we need to have it in our face that way all the excuses we are coming up with sound for what they are excuses and perhaps if it’s in my face long and often enough, perhaps I might one day decide to take an honest look at it and decide to change the course of my life and discover the potential that exist within, facing the truth of who I really am and move on the better and greater realizations.
First I need to find what is it that I really want? And then go and decide what it is that you really want. Why not doing it now, just stop reading, because if you can’t believe in you then the rest of this post is totally irrelevant and might as well stop right here.
Still here? Good then write down what is it that you really want.
You’ve got it? Great now let’s carry on, shall we?
100’ if not 1000’s of books have been written on the subject of possibilities and all the author have one thing in common to say. Basically the fact is that if you can dream it you can make it happen. And that is repeated from way back over 2000 years ago and probably further still by many great men. Jesus, Buddha, Marcus Aurelius, Plato, Pythagoras, Leonardo Da Vinci, and many more all the way to our time 100’s of great people have said it and are saying it, shouting it louder and louder, “YES YOU CAN”, “BELIEVE” Isn’t it something when so many people are saying the same thing over centuries, can there be some truth to this, or is it total mass hysteria? I choose to believe that there is some truth into that. And I believe the voices from the past and the present guiding me to create anything I want to create is possible, but that’s me, what about you?
Whenever you hear your own voice uttering the word “impossible” or the phrase “I don’t believe”, turn it around, rephrase it and honestly say “ I am impossible” or “I am a non believer”, make it yours, because it is, and think about it this way, I was created an impossibility, my parents raised something that is not believable. How’s that feel? How does it resonate within?
For the past few years I am using and teaching a technique called The One Command. I encourage you to investigate. It is bringing me closer and closer to my life goals and already I have witnessed great success because of it. Visit my link. http://tocleaders.com/bernardt/
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Your potentiality

Discover the nature of whom and what you really are, and in that knowledge exist the ability to fulfill any dream you might have. The more you experience your true nature, the closer you are to the all knowing, all powerful field of consciousness. You might want to read that statement again and again until it is imprinted in your mind, because if there is a secret to success, this is the life-core of your self-discovery. And just by knowing and accepting that, you have the ability to make any dreams come true.
When experiencing the power existing within the knowledge of whom and what you are there is no more fears, no need to control, and no need for external approval. And in the stillness of the mind reside the realization of all possibilities brought to you by the universal inspiration that conduct and create all life. Practicing stillness is required for the fulfillment of all your desires, in stillness you are connected to the universal field of consciousness, and there exist the synchronization of all the details needed to create your dreams into reality.
Unplugging from the external bombardment of continuous noises, is the necessary step to connect to the inner higher self and deepest intuition. In other word “slow down” anytime you are offer the opportunity to do so, during the daily commute, slow down tune in to the inner higher self. Every opportunity you have to slow down the thought process, take advantage of it. Practice meditation twice per day. One of my favor times is first thing in the morning when I prepare for the day. And when I go to the gym, my body is used to the exercises, I can then close my mind to the outside world and immerse myself in deep meditation making the exercises easy and effortless and building my inner strength.
One of the natural laws in effect is the law of giving and although that word “giving” can bring mix feelings at time I like to replace it with “sharing”. Sharing all that you already have and enjoy, if you have peace share with others, share your joy and your love give some of your time and express love and gratitude.
A great idea is to share freely, starting today, a smile, a compliment, a prayer, a flower; there is all kind of things you can share freely.
Stay open to all possibilities rejecting none, allowing for the universe the choice of bringing the realization of your dreams in ways that you might not even consider, and allow for the timing to be perfect.
Are you wounded up in knots and worries about the outcome, are you so stressed about the outcome, whether or not you are going to achieve what you set yourself to? Give it up; this is one of the reasons why those things are not happening just because we are all tense with our intentions, we need to le go of the control simply because there are things we cannot control and amount of worries and frustrations is going to change it. Keep on keeping on like the saying goes.
Don’t get all caught up in whether it’s going to all work out in the end. What do you need to do next? Do that. Impeccably. And, odds are that faster than we can imagine, our results will show up on our doorsteps.
Everything is created for a purpose, take the time and look around and discover for what purpose everything is. Look at flowers, threes, grass, even the dirt itself, everything has a purpose and everything seems to know what their purpose is. What is yours? In all of creation, us human, the top of the food chain, we are the only one that wonders around in this life searching for a purpose. Here is the BIG secret, it’s inside of us. Go take a mirror and stare at in the depth of your eyes and see what is your purpose, then go and do it voluntarily.
And after you’ve done that then, ask yourself what you would do if you had all the time and all the money in the world, brainstorm your greatest strengths, journal about the times when you felt most alive—what were you doing and how can you do more of that in your life?!? And, meditate on this question: “How can I serve?
For the past few years I am using and teaching a technique called The One Command. I encourage you to investigate. It is bringing me closer and closer to my life goals and already I have witnessed great success because of it. Visit my link. http://tocleaders.com/bernardt/
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Becoming more.

Becoming more.
How can I become more? What can I do to be more than what I am? Where do I start? How can I see things differently so to improve day in and day out?
When I was very young adult, I once made the comment that I would change the world to be a perfect place. Someone present asked. How will you do that? I will clean it up I said. And that person said something I never forget. “Start by cleaning your own room. And over the years that comment made and is making more and more sense.
And through my life I searched for the best way to become what I wanted to see in the world. My life became a garden where seed were planted and, with care and work were allow to grow and in turn producing many more seeds that in turn when finding a fertile soil would also grow mature and produce 10,100,or even 1000 seeds. And so on and so on.
Imagine that: A seed planted into the ground, springs to life. And, as it does so, the mere act of living produces a hundred more seeds which then spring to life as well. I like to think of the seeds that I’m planting in my life—seeds of love, kindness, generosity, creativity, inspiration. Knowing that as I plant these seeds within my own life, I have the potential to produce a hundred more seeds in other people’s lives—which will then produce a hundred more seeds and they, in turn, of course, have the potential to produce a hundred more seeds and…
THIS, I believe, is how we can change the world.
And although through my life I have experienced time of drought and time of flood, on the average I have experienced many good fortune and good deeds. I have come across many good people, in person or via books or any other means that have influenced my garden.
It starts with the most simple moment to moment behaviors and speaks to the eternally poignant truth of Gandhi’s wisdom that if we wish to change the world, we must first “be the change” we want to see.
How about you?
What seeds are you planting?
As you know, the process works both ways. Plant anger, frustration, rudeness, pettiness, competitiveness, aggression and you plant seeds that will also produce more of their kind.
The challenge and call is simple: Let’s plant the seeds within ourselves that we wish to see multiply in our lives and in our world!
We are creators and as such we spread ourselves and in turn influence others to become gardeners of life. Like many others before us.
And through it all forget not gratitude in every moment and in everything we experience. And yes sometime we don’t feel like it and it doesn’t matter if there is a drought or a flood gratitude must be at the fore front at all time. It doesn’t matter if the air is hot or cold, one must breathe and gratitude is like the air we need it to survive in a healthy manner.
Starting a gratitude journal is a very healthy way to practice gratitude. The first step is to seat down and write 50 things that you are grateful for. When I first started that I couldn’t find 5 and as I get writing it started to flow unceasingly, and my journal is full of those things that I am happy about. Give it a try and see where it takes you.
It is necessary, then, to cultivate the habit of being grateful for every good thing that comes to you; and those that are not so good, because even in time of drought or flood there is always something to be grateful for; and to give thanks continuously. And because all things have contributed to your advancement, you should include all things in your gratitude.

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Emptiness of meaning.

Nothing has meaning outside of that which we give it. Nothing has any *absolute* meaning because, if it did, then everyone would experience it exactly the same, all the time. Let’s take for example someone at work or anywhere in our life that we find annoying, we don’t see this on the outside but on the inside of us, if it was on the outside everyone around would experience it that way as well. Someone somewhere thinks of that person as lovable and loving. This could not be true if the annoyingness would fly out of that person.
For example, imagine your boss yelling at you. Is he a jerk? Well, that’s one perspective, but not the only one. His wife may think he’s an incredibly loving and considerate guy. He’s “empty” of meaning.
Have you ever seen those Rorschach ink blobs? One big blob. No inherent meaning. Psychologists use it to get a peek into your subconscious mind because what YOU see in it reveals what’s in YOU more than it reveals what’s in the blob. The ink blob is “empty.” A million people will have a million nuanced experiences or interpretations of it. It has no inherent meaning other than that which you give it.
What do you see in today’s economy? Is it scary to you or does it has within itself a hidden potential? Can you see it? When it all started I adopted an attitude toward it and it goes this way. “Recession, I refuse to participate.” As recession affected me, not that I can perceive, my life style hasn’t changed much if anything I enjoyed an improve life style. And that’s what it is, I can choose to see anything as “empty” and give it whatever meaning I want.
January first 8 Am people meet on the beach and go for a swim in the ocean. Is the water cold? Probably to most people but they choose to see it differently and give it the meaning that it is actually not that cold. Most people shiver just thinking about it. Preconceive formulated beliefs that what it is, in other words “old programming” can you change that? Definitely you can decide to see it in a different way. And most time by staring at it long enough, the “ink blob” will change shape form and color, but one need to stare at it for a while and allow for something different to take place.
So what is getting to you right now? Are you convinced that it is the absolute truth no matter what? How can you step back and see it in a new, more empowering way? And, um, what are you waiting for? Can you just ask the question, “What do I want instead? And then note the first thing that comes to the surface and stare at it for a while and see what’s hidden within.
Even a relatively minor action, if undertaken with a conscious awareness of how imprints make us see an otherwise ‘neutral’ or ‘empty’ world as we do, will lead to tremendous results. And of course there is the need to practice and never give up becoming the expert in the matter. I go to the gym five days a week, when I first started I was impatient for results, I wanted the shade the pounds and I wanted to become stronger and I wanted it now. Not until I decided to plan for a weight goals that I believe I could attain and for a certain weight I could lift without hurting myself, did anything happened. I decided to shade 5 lbs per week, and went on to do whatever needed to be done. And not just at the gym. I start parking the care far away from the door or to where I was going thus getting more exercise all the time. I go around finding free parking even if it meant walking two or three blocks to get where I wanted to go. And excitingly enough I start noticing a change. My weight went down just like magic and even better stayed down. One time I was stuck with been able to work out with only 20 lbs weight, and was not able to go on to the next level of 25lbs. One day I noticed that from 10 reps I actually improved to 20 and 25 reps effortlessly. And one evening I grabbed the weights and start working and after 10 reps it felt like I just did 30. I noticed when I put the weights down, the numbers on them was 25 lbs. Was I exited or what? Never looked back.
Practice is the key and keep doing it until it become a habit. And never look back.
And all of that applies to every facets of our life. And by applying the exact same principles in all area of your life. It is impossible for a betterment of any situation not to become apparent if sturdy continuous practice is applied to any subject.
Stare at it for long enough and it will start to change.
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What is your goal? And how are you getting there?

Is your goal to make xxxx amount of money, to get things, to acquire a fortune? Or is your goal to create or discover something that add values to the people at large. In short what is your motivation? A truly prosperous person is the one that is a fully functioning person.

I am always intrigued by success stories, stories of people creating great wealth and how they went about it. I found, most often than enough that many successful people did it the hard way, thus creating for themselves more trouble than they could bear. Many stories I came across are stories of extreme hard work and continuous battle, legal or not. And I ask the question, “is there a way to succeed, enjoying every steps of the process, in fairness and equality?”

Is giving better than taking? How can one continuously give and receive at the same time, is there a process that one can acquire that will make life simpler and easier to achieve one’s dreams and goals or is all a arduous battle that leave unhealed scars?

Prosperity, from the Latin root which literally translates: ‘according to hope’ or ‘to go forward hopefully.’ Thus it is not so much a condition in life as it is an attitude toward life. So to be prosperous is to live “in hope” or to live “hopefully”. Probably a better journey than fighting every inch of the way, slashing and desperately hanging on with one’s whole life and strenght, encountering continuous battle some with success and some with disaster.

Affluence literal meaning is “an abundant flow” and not things at all. When we are consciously centered in the universal flow, we experience inner direction and the enfoldment of creative activity. Things come too, but prosperity is not just having things. It is the consciousness that attracts things. To be affluent is to place oneself in the flow of natural courses engendered by an initial thought to create values not just for oneself but for the whole universe we live in.

To have security is not to amass huge amount of stuff, instead it’s to be free of all encumbrances holding one down even in the worse of time. Victor Hugo in his couplet

Be like the bird

That pausing in her flight

While on boughs too slight,

Feels them give way

Beneath her, and yet sings,

Knowing she hath wings.”

Emphasizing the meaning of the word SECURITY from the Latin “being without care” or to be “free from anxiety”, isn’t that being wealthy? Knowing that, when encountering a challenging situation, one has wings to fly.

“There is only one way by which you can achieve prosperity. It is to take charge of your mind.”

How about you? Are you in charge of your mind? What steps are you taking to get even more in charge? Meditation perhaps? How about being truly present with your children? Catching your negative self-talk?

Witness how you show up in the world. How your mind can bounce from thought to thought to (hopefully not negative) thought. Get in charge. And if are having difficulties with that, we are offering some help, you just need to take advantage of it.

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Your Programming

Your programming lead to your thoughts; your thoughts create emotions; emotions create feelings; feelings create actions; actions create results. Therefore, just as is done with a personal computer, by changing your programming, you take the first essential step to changing your results.
Let’s take a closer look at the process. Toughs create emotions, just try it for size, think of a happy memory, something sweet and gentle and loving, notice what emotions are arising, now how do you feel? Good I hope. Now if you were to act upon the results of your emotions and feelings what do you think you would do? Something nice and doing so you expect good results from that. Although the process seems complicated to explain it is very simple to understand and practice.
So good positive thought create good positive results.
Now when we throw in the old programming then we see totally different results than expected. And all of that is taking place in the unconscious part of the mind. We’ve been so conditioned to think a certain way that most of our thoughts aren’t of our own volition. And, unfortunately, usually aren’t very good ones. The importance is of looking at how we’re programming ourselves and, way more importantly, making the commitment to RE-program ourselves with more conscious, empowering thoughts.
Many different programs suggest the use of continuous repetitions of the same pattern of words over and over again called affirmations. I have tried that and never really see many results from it. When affirming something, I find, that is always a thought perking up saying “that’s pure bs, you don’t have that and instead of creating good feelings I end up the other way. Instead I find declarations to be more potent for me. Declaration is not saying something is true, it’s saying I have an intention of doing or being something. This is a position the little voice can buy, because I am not stating it’s true right now, but again, it’s an intention for me in the future.
I can say to myself over and over again the affirmation that “I am debt free” and the little voice inside perks up saying “no you’re not” Instead I declare that I am creating financial freedom, and the little voice say “we are really? That great” Here again whatever works for you is what you need to use and if affirmation are your thongs then go with it. And if you have tried the affirmations ways and see no results you might want to create your declarations and work with that.
And here s the most important choice we need to decide on are we going to follow the hero’s way or are we choosing to be a victim. And that my friend is the first step that needs to be implemented. Hero or victim, victim or hero. And just making that decision will bring you in to the rest of your life. So decide now Hero or victim?
Do you complain a lot? You know what you’re doing when you complain? You’re basically telling the Universe that you’re powerless. That you’d prefer to bitch about something you don’t like rather than ask yourself the question, “Hmmm… What do I want instead? And how can I get it?!?!” I printed a poster, a few years ago, and posted on my wall right in front of me and it says “ When you complain you become a living breathing crap magnet” Just a reminder of the results caused by my thoughts. Here is a small exercise you can practice when you feel like complaining. Take your finger and slide it across your throat—like you’re slitting your throat. How’s does that feel?!?
“Bless that which you want. If you see a person with a beautiful home, bless that person and bless that home. If you see a person with a beautiful car, bless that person and bless that car. If you see a person with a loving family, bless that person and bless that family. If you see a person with a beautiful body, bless that person and bless their body.”
I go to the gym five nights a week, keeping in shape, when I am there I bless a lot of bodies 
See something you want? Bless the person who has it. Bless that which you want.
Are you affecting or infecting people, are you affected or infected by others? “Energy is contagious: either you affect people or you infect people… I believe negative thinking is like having measles of the mind. If you have a cold would you purposely sneeze in someone’s face? Or would you let anyone with the flu or cold cough or sneeze in your face? The same applies with negative attitude, it’s contagious both ways. And more often than enough we let ourselves being infected by other’s attitude.
In the case changing seems to be too difficult, if you believe that you can’t change, or you don’t know where to start.
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What are you thinking about?

Our thoughts determine our reality, our happiness our everything. The most valuable skill that you could ever develop is the skill of directing your thoughts toward what you want—to be adept at quickly evaluating all situations and then quickly coming to the conclusion of what you most want—and then giving your undivided attention to that.
And that, we will find it is the most dominant theme throughout all the great wisdom teachers, it would be the fact that our thoughts determine our reality our happiness our everything.
“Most of us are much closer to a financial fortune than we are even allowing yourself to purely desire, because, in the thought that it might come, we right away begin thinking of how disappointed we will be if it does not come. And so, in our lackful thought, we do not allow ourselves to desire or to expect anything magnificent in terms of money; and that is the reason why, for the most part, we are living rather mediocre financial experiences.”
As I re-read these words I just wrote down I can’t help it and gasp for the immensity of the truth implied. Where are these thoughts come from , who is speaking inside of me, dictating a perfect line of conduct that allow me to get all that I ever wanted. So I am creating my own limitation by allowing the thought of being deceived even before any results had time to be realized?!?
Can you feel the truth in those words? Isn’t it true that the moment we start to get excited about something, we immediately imagine not getting it and then never really allow ourselves to get super passionate.
That ever happens to you?
Spending time complaining about what we call “reality” just keep confirming the “reality” and don’t allow us to experience something that can be so different, and because it is different it’s difficult to adapt to a new life. All changes need a period of adaptation, a new job, a new house a new place, anything we’ve never experienced before need a time to adapt. So what we are saying here is to adapt to what your desire drive you toward before you experience it in “reality” Picturing yourself living the life you desire, be there feel it let it make you emotions rises, Expect what it is you desire and let it take a life of its own within you, no reservation, no limitations, let it be what it’s supposed to be.
In short start telling a new story, as you want it, and stop telling how it is or worse how it was. And if need be create your story in writing and keep doing it until it becomes real to you, until you can feel it and say” yes that’s it, that my life” Whenever you speak of your life speak of the new story, impress it upon yourself to be the reality of your life.
We can totally rewire our brain, its call neuro-plasticity.
Imagine going sledding after a fresh snow. Nothing but pristine white snow. You walk up with your sled and take the first trip down for the day. You go this way and that and get to the bottom. Your course was pretty random, yah?
Then, you walk back up again. And you come back down. Odds are you’re going to hit some of the grooves you created from the first trip. You do it again and again and again.
Now, by the end of the day, you’re likely to have grooved a pretty strong little sled-trail—making the odds that you head down the same route and wind up at the same destination PRETTY STRONG. Make sense?
And that’s how our brain is wired from past experience, We’re GROOVED so strongly that when something happens we literally don’t even have to think for a moment for our old patterns to play themselves out.
You’ve gotta put a road block up on the normal path. In this case, you’ve gotta STOP telling your old story and START telling your new. So, if you’re truly committed to creating your ideal life, STOP telling your old story. STOP STOP STOP. Don’t let a negative sentence complete itself. Instead, start telling the amazing story of your new, gloriously unfolding life.
Whenever you feel bad, you just learned something very important—you learned how you don’t want to feel and what you don’t want. Right? Now, in that moment of knowing what you don’t want, why not ask yourself: “So, I clearly don’t want that!! What DO I want instead?!?
You are thinking about how you’re short of cash? Or that you’re unhappy about? Well, if you keep on unconsciously focusing on that, you’re pretty much going to continue to get more of it .
If, however, you begin to consistently ask yourself “What do I want?” you’ll immediately raise your energy TOWARD that which you want rather than toward that which you don’t want.
There is only two kinds of feelings. A good one and a bad one that’s it, There is many form of emotions, which in turn cause either good feelings of bad ones So at that point we have a choice we can choose to change the thoughts that will change the emotions which in turn change the feelings and when we are feeling good everything is possible.
At this moment where are you? Go ahead take a look! Got it? Great now ask the question. What do I want instead? What’s coming up? Write it down. What is it that you absolutely love to do? Something that you would gladly pay for it to do it, what is it? Can you focus on that for a while and see it happen?
The sky is not even the limit anymore since we are capable to go beyond it. Follow your inner guidance system, and trust it. Double guessing will always get you back into trouble.
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Who am I and who will I be.

First analysis I submit myself too is what am I really a “now” person or a “latter” person?
Years ago I was offered a job teaching grad 7 to 9, all in one class room around 70 kids. Yeah one of those one for all small country side 3 class room school. I only did it for one year and it was a great experience where I learn a lot about myself.
As extracurricular activities we conducted experiment with the kids, Kids are amazing that way say the word “adventure” and 95% of them are onboard without even knowing what the “adventure” is going to be. That was lesson numero uno, for me that is.
After a class I asked the students to draw on a sheet of paper what they learned during the class. Of course extracurricular work deserves extra reward. Earlier we prepared bags of assorted candies one for each kid, they will receive one bag after turning the drawing to us. Each bag was just a hand full of goodies.
Upon completion of the drawing we ask the kids to come to the front and explain what they drew and why. Then they could take a bag of candy. But first I made a sort speech offering a bag of 2lbs of candy to anyone that would wait 3 days. So draw the picture, stand in front of the class and explain the choice they made then either grab a small bag of candy or wait 3 days to get the 2pounder. Out of 70 kids 3 decided to wait and before the bell rang 2 changed their mind. And only one waited 3 days. That was lesson numero deuce. I was glad that the kids didn’t all go for the 2 pounder my pay check would have gone into candies?!?
That evening thoughts were running through my head, what am I a now person or a later one? I discovered many other things during that year, it was a great year.
I love going to nature for learning purposes, and I am a gardener, yes indeed I can get stuff to grow, no kidding!!!
Did you know it take seven weeks for a carrot seed to emerge? Nine month for a baby to be born and SEVEN years for bamboo to sprout out of the ground. How about commitment to create. The amazing thing is that bamboo can grow thirteen feet in as little as one week.
So much introspection needed here to really find out what kind of person you are, it’s seems easy at first, well yes I want to be a later well rewarded person but how do I behave today, right now, do I keep putting things off? Do I rather seat in front of the TV instead of going to the gym? Looking at every moment of everyday will give you a good perspective of who you really are now. And from that point you can decide to be different by doing things differently. Simple? Well not quite. Easy? Not really it seems that change is always hard unless we embrace it fully and totally and wonder not for quick results. Instead keep working at it faithfully, consistently, abundantly and selflessly.
Love the quote from one of the master in meditation, sorry don’t recall his name just yet.
Work diligently. Diligently. Work patiently and persistently. Patiently and persistently. And you’re bound to be successful. Bound to be successful.
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Reflection

I look in the mirror and see … me, really? Who is the real me? Is it what I think as the real me or is it the reflection in the mirror.
Next time you look into the mirror ask the question, Is this really the way I really am?
The questions arise from time to time, why don’t I receive what I wish for, command for, visualize for?
What is slowing down or even stopping the process of manifesting? How is it that I forget to “feel” the presence of that what I wish for?
How about EGO, the “I” that think he is the real “ME”.
The ego strive on deception, totally, continuously. The ego love the juice provided by self victimization, yes indeed yes to be a victim is very fashionable and very rewarding, just read, watch or listen to the news. The ego love for me to be a victim reinforces the ego’s values, why me or why not me, how is it that I don’t get what I ask for when every one else does, and on and on.
That’s why Wally ( the Science of Getting Rich) continuously reminds us to stay on the positive side of life, as soon we allow the ego to formulate the slightest doubt or question regarding anything we desire, we are lost in a variety of thoughts not serving our purpose. Transcending the ego, will guaranty the outcome we desire. And that my friend can be a life long process. Quoting Abraham/Hicks, “you can’t get it done and you can’t get it wrong” So we keep working at it and eventually we will prevail yes we will guaranty.
“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. Math 7.7
And I could quote may others.
The ego is the one that interfere with the real ME, taking credit for everything that happens, for every thought and actions that take place, the ego feed on pride, and pride is not what we think it is, pride is a negative level of consciousness. Discovering that was a turning point in my life. Did it hurt yes it did, and as soon I accepted that the truth of it everything changed for me. Yes the ego put up a fight to the point of causing a bout of depression, that how clever the ego is, to preserve his place he will even destroy the body if necessary. Many have experienced the dark night of the soul, and it seems to be a necessary step for the release of the ME and the process of transcending the ego.
When ever I forget to feel good about my visions, my goals I know now that the ego is trying again to set up blocks to the realization of my dreams.
I have control over my thoughts and in turn control over y emotions via my thoughts and control over my feelings and following the process I have control over my actions, always being aware that the ego will try to take credit for it all so instead I need now to focus on gratitude toward the higher self, and let the ego fade away.
So when ever thoughts of no having, not receiving, lack, occur I am grateful for what I have received so far and I am grateful for what is in the process of coming to me, and above all else I want to see.
All is well

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